Thursday, February 24, 2011

My New Boss

It's official.  I put in my 2 weeks notice today.  What does that mean?  I won't be returning to work after my maternity leave is over! WooHoo!
The place I worked (which cannot be mentioned because I promised them) has been a good place to work.  I learned a lot in the 3 years that I was there. 

This was my first REAL job.  What I mean by that is: I had my Bachelor's degree and was done with college.  I was a "professional" of sorts.  I wore suits, dress pants, dress shirts, and (for a long time) pantyhose every day (until they liberated the women and allowed them to come pantyhoseless--I know scandalous isn't it!?!?!!?). 

Things I will miss: The nice clients.  The clients that ask if I'm Christian or if I've found Jesus.  The older gentlemen that ask if I'm short, blonde, used to be a cheerleader, etc.  The clients that invite me to have a Sam Adams with them on the beach if I'm ever in Maine (I had to let him know that I would prefer a soda instead).  The elderly man that invited me to stay at his apartment if I visit Florida (and his complex even has a pool!).  The guy in Bisbee, AZ that invited me to join him for a cup of coffee when I'm there next. The woman that really had her account messed up by us, and after helping her I felt like her best friend.  I could go on and on. 

Things I won't miss: The jerks. The clients that call in with the idea that (before I even pick up the phone) everything is my fault and that I'm incompetent.  The clients that think that yelling and cursing will get them their way.  The clients who ask the same question over and over again to see if you'll answer differently if they ask the question again.  The clients who want advice (which I wasn't legally allowed to give) and keep pushing for it by saying something like, "What would you tell your mother?"  I also won't miss some of the rules in place at my old workplace.  Sitting in a cubicle staring at a computer all day.  Hearing a beep (it means you have another phone call and you're LIVE--that's right you don't even get a second to compose yourself before answering). 

What will I be doing now?  Answering to a new boss!

He's a little wet behind the ears still...literally!




And he can sometimes be a little cranky...as shown below!


But...he's proving himself to be the best boss so far!   

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Caught Clenching--and a Visit from Grandma & Uncle Ammon

On Monday night, Grandma Brewer & Uncle Ammon came and stayed with us.  This was Beau's first time meeting Ammon! Grandma gave Beau a bath...and Beau gave Grandma his usual surprise--peeing in the bathtub!

Tuesday, Ammon went to a seminar so I didn't get to see him much.  I only saw him when he got back right before they left. 

Grandma Brewer helped me go to the dentist which I have been needing to do for a LONG time.  She watched Beau while the dentist tortured me (not really--he was nice) in the dentist chair.  You see, I thought I had a cavity.  But, upon further examination by a dentist....I don't.  Apparently, I am not having tooth problems.  Just jaw problems.  The dentist said that he thinks I'm clenching my teeth due to stress.  (WHAT STRESS????? ha ha...I didn't just have a baby or anything)  He told me to pay attention and see if I clench my teeth.  I've caught myself 3 times now.  The first of which was last night while I was up breastfeeding Beau.  If I can stop clenching, the pain should go away! Hopefully, I can relieve stress in more positive ways.

For those of you who aren't aware (because I wasn't)...when you're just sitting with your mouth closed, your teeth SHOULD NOT TOUCH.  There should at least be a small gap. 

Even though I had to go to the dentist, Monday & Tuesday were fun with our visitors!

Saturday, February 19, 2011

3 Weeks

Yep! I'm still here...and barely kicking.  Literally.  I have come down with some sort of stomach something.  I haven't really eaten much today.  I am trying my best to stay hydrated.

Thank you Gatorade for being drinkable even when nothing else tastes good!

In other news:

Beau is still waking up a lot at night! I live for the nights when Jereld can help me more (when he works I give him a break because he's so awesome). 

Beau sometimes usually (well...pretty much always) takes an hour to eat. I wonder if he'll get faster.  My sisters reassure me that he will get more efficient. In the meantime, you'll find me falling asleep sitting up at night...and watching plenty of TV shows during the day.  Dr. Oz....Oprah...Ellen...The Doctors....just a few of my usuals. 

I have discovered that Beau got Jereld's feet, hands, ears, most facial features...etc.  The only real things I can claim that I passed on so far are the amount of hair he has and his chubby, chubby cheeks.

Today after eating, Beau did a little laugh.  Pretty sure it was just gas, but it was cute gas.  I must be a mother...ha ha.



Here's what Beau's hair looks like straight out of the bath--I guess I did pass this on to him! Luckily, my hair doesn't do this so bad when it's long! Easier to manage! 

 He stays awake a lot more lately!

He gave me this lip because he was tired of mom taking too many pictures!

Monday, February 14, 2011

Babies Don't Keep

by Ruth Hulburt Hamilton



Mother, O Mother, come shake out your cloth,

Empty the dustpan, poison the moth,

Hang out the washing, make up the bed,

Sew on a button and butter the bread.



Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?

She’s up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.



Oh, I’ve grown as shiftless as Little Boy Blue,

Lullabye, rockabye, lullabye loo.

Dishes are waiting and bills are past due

Pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peekaboo



The shopping’s not done and there’s nothing for stew

And out in the yard there’s a hullabaloo

But I’m playing Kanga and this is my Roo

Look! Aren’t his eyes the most wonderful hue?

Lullabye, rockaby lullabye loo.



The cleaning and scrubbing can wait till tomorrow

But children grow up as I’ve learned to my sorrow.

So quiet down cobwebs; Dust go to sleep!

I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.






I'll try to remember this poem when I look at my messy house next time. :)

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Reality Check--and some Firsts

Jereld and I don't always look perfect! Shocker...I know! I'm not holding back on the pictures just because we don't look like the parents on Leave It To Beaver so--without further delay ENJOY!

Being new parents is tough--can you see the tiredness on our faces??? It's worth it though!






I never included our first family picture from the hospital.  Here it is!  



I finally got a picture with him WIDE AWAKE! This little guy's hair is OUT OF CONTROL!!!!!  AND WE LOVE IT!

When Beau came home from the hospital, he had jaundice :( ...So, his pediatrician had to order this Bili-light for him.  As you can tell, it wasn't really his favorite. He's better now and doesn't have to be tortured by this light anymore!


Per tradition, Grandma Payne gave him his first sponge bath.  He cried until she washed his hair.  He liked that!

Beau got his first visit from his Aunt Irene! 

Here is his first tub bath--the expression on his face says it all! 

First Bass Pro shirt! Daddy is so proud!

First time meeting his Brewer Grandparents!

 First time meeting Uncle Austin!

 First time meeting Uncle Trace!

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Beau's Birth Story

It's been 4 days since Beau was born, and I need to write the story down before I forget what happened.  I am a little fuzzy on my time frames since I was in quite a bit of pain for awhile, but I'm writing this to the best of my ability. 

As most of you know, I was super concerned about how much Beau was going to weigh since an ultrasound on Thursday 1/27/11 estimated 8 lbs 9 oz.  I asked for advice here on my blog about how to get things rolling, and I sought advice from a doctor that Jereld works with at the hospital. 

Thursday night, I drank some Red Raspberry herbal tea, I ordered pizza in (from our favorite place none-the-less), I did some squats, and other things.  But, what I believe the key for me was accupuncture. 

You see--the doctor Jereld works with is a pain management/chiropractic doctor, and he claims that accupuncture can put a woman into labor.  He showed Jereld 2 spots on the leg (one by the ankle and one by the knee) to do some accupuncture on.  Jereld and I watched some TV, and I let Jereld stick me with a (sterile) needle. He first did my ankle and left that in for about 20 minutes, and then did my knee area and left that in for 20 minutes. 

A little while later, Jereld and I went to bed, disappointed that absolutely nothing was happening. We were just sure that we had failed.

Then, around 12:20am I woke up because I was having painful contractions.  I tried to ignore them because I just knew it had to be a false alarm.  But, they kept coming, and they were getting closer and closer together.  So, I got up and took a bath, drank a large glass of water, walked around for a couple of minutes, and then laid back down thinking that they would stop.  They still kept coming.  When I timed them at this point, they were about 1-2 minutes apart and pretty painful.

Finally, I woke up Jereld and told him that I needed to go to the hospital.  He grabbed our hospital bag, and we left.  On the way to the hospital, Jereld said, "I feel so nervous.  I think this is it!"  I told him that it probably wasn't and that they were just going to send us home.  He told me that he never felt nervous on any of the other trips, so he really thought it might be it.  I told him not to jinx it.

At the hospital, they got me in a triage room pretty quickly.  They hooked me up to monitors and checked me.  You'll recall that I was only dialated to a 2 at the doctors office.  When I was first checked at the hospital, I was at a 2 1/2.  That number was so disappointing to me because it was SO LOW!  They decided to watch me for an hour.  During that hour (I was in pain might I add), I just knew they were sending me home.  When the nurse checked me again, I was at a 3.  Half a centimeter an hour is not quick progress, but it's still progress, and they decided to keep me another hour for observation.  After the next hour, I was at a 3 1/2.  Once again, not in quick quick labor.  The nurse said she would call Dr. L and stepped out of the room.  I just knew I was going home. 

In triage, the rooms are only divided by curtains, so we could hear the nurse on the phone with Dr. L.  And, it sounded like they were ADMITTING ME! YAY! Just when we overheard that, I felt a gush of water and felt very wet.  I told Jereld and asked him to tell the nurse that I thought my water had broken.  Once he told her, she came in to check.  She seemed pretty skeptical because I wasn't sopping wet, but she decided to check anyways.  After looking at the fluid through here microscope thingee, she came back and told us it was in fact my water.  (So there, crabby nurse!)

Things seemed to go somewhat faster after that point.  I didn't have to ask for my epidural.  They knew I wanted on and just came to give it to me immediately.  They also came to give me an IV (which they tried 4 different spots to find a good place for it--I'm a human pincushion).   Then, they took me to Labor & Delivery room number 10.

This all occured a little before 7:00am on Friday because it was almost shift change.  I don't even remember my first nurse's name.  Then, the best nurse I've had came (she was an angel).  Her name was Cherie.  She was probably about my mom's age.  She was so nice.  I was between a 4 and 5 when she first checked me. 

During the time between when I got my epidural and transferred to the new room, I realized that my right side was numb, but I could still feel everything on the left.  I was sure the epidural would kick in, so I didn't say anything. 
Finally, when Cherie came.  I told her.  She called the anesthesiologist and had them check my epidural.  And, it wasn't working. They redid my epidural.  While they redid the epidural, I had to deal with the contractions which were SUPER painful.  Luckily, the 2nd epidural worked, and I was feeling very numb afterwards.  Dr. L came and checked me around the same time.  He said he was going to be leaving at 12:30 to go with his son on a field trip and probably wouldn't be there to deliver Beau but that one of his partners would. 

Somewhere between 11:00am and 12:00pm, Cherie checked me again because I was feeling a lot more pressure.  She pronounced me at an 8.  Yay! 

About 20-30 minutes later, I asked her to check me again because of even more pressure.  I was at a 9 1/2.  At this point, Cherie said she would be back in 10 minutes to check me again because I would probably be at a 10.  And about 10 minutes later, she was right.

I started pushing around 12:45 (if I remember right).  About 10 minutes before Beau was born, Dr. M (from the same office as Dr. L) came and introduced herself.  At 2:22 (after about 1 1/2 hours of hard pushing), Beau was born. 

He weighed 7 pounds 3 ounces and was 21 inches long. 

And he's all ours!






Enjoy the 5 day old pictures!